Domestic Violence

Houston Domestic Violence Attorney

Domestic violence is one of the most serious issues in family law, and the courts treat it as such. If you are accused of domestic violence, or are the victim of it, get help immediately. At the Law Office of Dan Kirby in Houston, we take your safety seriously. We also realize that false allegations of domestic violence can be made to gain leverage in a divorce or other family law dispute. As our client, you will work with a dedicated, experienced family law attorney who will get to the facts and take immediate steps to protect your rights.

If you are suffering, do not wait. Schedule a consultation at our firm by calling 713-681-1300.

Standing Up For Victims

If you or your children are suffering from abuse at the hands of a spouse or partner, there are immediate steps we can take to keep you safe, including getting a protective order. We can file for the protective order on your behalf, and then begin the process of filing for divorce if that is your wish.

If you are a victim of domestic violence, we are prepared to put our comprehensive knowledge to work for you. A protective order could help keep you safe and prevent an abusive spouse from being around your children.

A charge of domestic violence can land you in jail, take away your parenting rights, your ability to re-enter your house and an ability to carry a firearm within a certain distance of the victim of domestic violence. To make matters even more serious, in the vast majority of times that police are called on a domestic disturbance, they make an arrest, even if it is not the victim’s wish.

Protecting You Against False Allegations

A charge of domestic violence can land you in jail, take away your parenting rights, your ability to re-enter your house and an ability to own a firearm. To make matters even more serious, in the vast majority of times that police are called on a domestic disturbance, they make an arrest, even if it is not the victim’s wish.

What is a Protective Order in Texas family law?

A protective order is a court order designed to help protect a person or child from family violence, threats, harassment, or related danger. It can restrict contact, limit access, and impose safety conditions enforced by the court.

Purpose of a Protective Order

The purpose of a protective order is to prevent future harm, not simply punish past conduct.

Texas courts use protective orders to help protect victims of family violence, threats of violence, abuse involving family or household members, and dating violence.

(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 71.004, 81.001)

See, e.g., Culver v. Culver, 360 S.W.3d 526 (Tex. App.—Texarkana 2011); Roper v. Jolliffe, 493 S.W.3d 624 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2015).

What Can a Protective Order Do?

Depending on the circumstances, a protective order may prohibit contact or communication, keep a person away from a home, workplace, school, or child’s school, restrict possession of firearms where applicable, address custody or visitation protections involving children, and require counseling or intervention programs.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.022)

How Is a Protective Order Granted?

A court may grant a protective order if it finds (1) family violence has occurred and (2) family violence is likely to occur again.

(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 81.001, 82.001)

How Long Does a Protective Order Last?

Protective orders often last up to two years, though they may last longer in some circumstances.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.025)

See, e.g., Garza v. Renteria, 726 S.W.3d 894 (Tex. App. 2025).

How Protective Orders Can Affect Family Cases

Protective orders can significantly affect divorce proceedings, child custody, visitation rights, and safety restrictions involving children.

See, e.g., Stary v. Ethridge, 712 S.W.3d 584 (Tex. 2025).

Final Thought

A protective order is one of the most important safety tools available in Texas family law. It can provide immediate protections and may significantly affect custody, visitation, and related family court decisions.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

How do protective orders affect custody and visitation in divorce cases?

Protective orders can significantly limit a parent’s custody and visitation rights in Texas. Courts prioritize the safety of the child and may restrict or supervise access if there is evidence of family violence.

Protective Orders and Custody Decisions

Texas law requires courts to consider family violence when deciding custody.

If there is credible evidence of a history or pattern of family violence, a parent may not be appointed as a joint managing conservator.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)

In practice: A protective order can strongly influence whether a parent is allowed to share decision-making authority over a child.

See, e.g., In re K.A.K., 2015 Tex. App. LEXIS 8393 (Tex. App.—Dallas Aug. 11, 2015).

Impact on Visitation Rights

Courts may limit or restrict visitation when family violence is involved.

A parent may:
– Be denied visitation, or
– Be allowed only supervised visitation, or
– Be subject to specific safety conditions

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)

Courts must ensure that any visitation arrangement does not endanger the child’s physical or emotional welfare.

See, e.g., In re L.C.L., 396 S.W.3d 712 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2013).

Presumption Against Unsupervised Visitation

Texas law creates a presumption that unsupervised visitation is not in the child’s best interest if there is credible evidence of family violence.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)

This means the burden shifts to the parent accused of violence to show that visitation is safe.

Protective Orders as Evidence

A protective order can serve as strong evidence that family violence has occurred.

Courts may consider:
– The timing of the protective order
– Whether it was issued within the last two years
– Whether the child was included as a protected person

Protective orders can support a finding that there is a risk of future harm.

See, e.g., In the Interest of T.L.S., 170 S.W.3d 164 (Tex. App.—Waco 2005).

Priority of Protective Orders

Protective orders generally take priority over conflicting custody or visitation provisions while they are in effect.

This ensures that safety measures remain enforceable.

See, e.g., Stary v. Ethridge, 712 S.W.3d 584 (Tex. 2025).

Final Thought

Protective orders can have a major impact on custody and visitation in Texas. Courts focus on protecting children and victims of family violence, and even a single incident can significantly affect parental rights.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

How long can a Protective Order last?

Many Texas protective orders last up to two years, but some can last much longer — and in limited circumstances, some protective orders may even be lifetime orders.

General Rule: Two Years

Most protective orders issued under Texas family law remain in effect for up to two years, unless the court sets a shorter period.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.025)

If the order does not specify an expiration date, it generally expires on the second anniversary of the date it was issued.

When a Protective Order Can Last Longer Than Two Years

Texas courts may issue orders lasting longer than two years if the court finds, for example, that the respondent:

• Committed felony family violence
• Caused serious bodily injury
• Has been subject to two or more prior protective orders involving the same applicant

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.025(a-1))

See, e.g., Brast v. Brast, 681 S.W.3d 788 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2023); Stary v. Ethridge, 712 S.W.3d 584 (Tex. 2025).

Can a Protective Order Ever Be Permanent?

In limited circumstances, yes.

Some protective orders issued under the Texas Code of Criminal Procedure may last:

• For many years
• For the life of the offender and victim in certain cases
• Or until modified by court order

(Tex. Code Crim. Proc. arts. 7B.003, 7B.007)

See also A.W. v. S.B., 2025 Tex. App. LEXIS 3970 (Tex. App.—Tyler 2025); Mahasneh v. Mahasneh, 2026 Tex. App. LEXIS 2583 (Tex. App.—Fort Worth 2026).

Protective Orders and Imprisonment

A protective order may also be extended if the restrained person is imprisoned when the order would otherwise expire.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.026)

In some cases, the order may continue until years after release.

Can Long-Term Protective Orders Be Challenged?

In some circumstances, a respondent may seek review of a long-term order.

However:
• Courts do not lift these orders lightly
• Compliance alone may not be enough to terminate the order

Final Thought

While many protective orders last two years, some can last much longer depending on the facts. In serious cases involving repeated or severe violence, long-term—and sometimes lifetime—protection may be available.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

May the parties agree to dismiss their Protective Order?

Not simply by private agreement alone. In Texas, parties cannot usually make a protective order case disappear merely by agreeing between themselves. The court generally must approve any resolution, and safety concerns remain the court’s priority.

Private Agreement Alone Is Not Enough

Even if both parties say:
• “We’ve worked it out”
• “We want to dismiss the case”
• “We’ve reconciled”

that does not automatically end a protective order proceeding.

Texas courts maintain authority over the case and may review whether dismissal or an agreed resolution is appropriate.

Agreed Protective Orders Are Possible

In some situations, parties may resolve the case through an agreed protective order, subject to court approval.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.005)

In practice, the parties may agree to terms, but the judge must still decide whether the agreement complies with the law and protects those involved.

Why Court Approval Matters

Protective order proceedings involve more than private settlement.

Courts consider:
• Safety of the applicant
• Protection of children or household members
• Public policy concerns involving family violence
• Whether the proposed resolution is appropriate

Can a Case Be Dismissed?

Sometimes dismissal may occur, but generally:
• It is not automatic
• It usually requires court action
• The judge may scrutinize whether dismissal is appropriate

(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 85.001, 85.005)

See also In re J.K.R., 658 S.W.3d 354 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2022) (discussing protective-order framework and judicial discretion).

Important Caution

Even when parties reconcile, violating an existing signed protective order can still carry serious consequences unless the court changes or dissolves the order.

Parties should never assume private agreement alone cancels a court order.

Final Thought

While parties may sometimes reach agreement in a protective-order case, dismissal or resolution usually requires court involvement. In these cases, the court’s focus remains safety, not simply party agreement.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Could I lose custody of my child because of a Protective Order?

Possibly, yes — a protective order involving family violence can affect custody and visitation. But a protective order does not automatically mean a parent loses custody. Texas courts focus on the child’s best interest and the safety concerns shown by the evidence.

A Protective Order Can Affect Custody

Texas courts must consider family violence when deciding conservatorship, possession, and access.

(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 153.002, 153.004)

If there is credible evidence of a history or pattern of family violence, a court may:
• Restrict custody rights
• Limit visitation
• Order supervised visitation
• In serious cases, deny access

Does a Protective Order Automatically Mean I Lose Custody?

No.

A protective order does not automatically terminate parental rights or automatically take custody away.

But it may significantly affect:
• Whether a parent can be appointed joint managing conservator
• Whether visitation must be supervised
• Whether possession is restricted

See, e.g., In re Marriage of Patel, 643 S.W.3d 216 (Tex. App.—Texarkana 2022); J.A.T. v. C.S.T., 641 S.W.3d 596 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2022).

When Could Custody Be Seriously At Risk?

Risk increases if the evidence shows:
• A pattern of family violence
• Danger to the child
• Sexual abuse allegations
• Violations of court orders
• Serious safety concerns

What Standard Does the Court Use?

The guiding rule is always the Best Interest of the Child.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.002)

Even where family violence is alleged, restrictions should generally be tailored to what is necessary to protect the child.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.193)

Can a Parent Still Have Visitation?

Often, yes.

Depending on circumstances, courts may allow:
• Supervised visitation
• Restricted visitation
• Therapeutic visitation
• Graduated visitation under safety conditions

Important Note

A protective order involving custody restrictions can be serious, but it does not always mean permanent loss of custody.

In many cases the issue is restriction and protection, not total loss of parental rights.

See, e.g., Stary v. Ethridge, 712 S.W.3d 584 (Tex. 2025); In re C.J.C., 603 S.W.3d 804 (Tex. 2020).

Final Thought

A protective order can affect custody, sometimes dramatically, but it does not automatically mean a parent loses custody. Texas courts focus on the child’s best interest and impose restrictions based on the facts proven in court.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Can parties agree to disregard a Protective Order?

No. Parties cannot privately agree to ignore or violate a protective order. A protective order remains enforceable until a court changes or terminates it.

Private Agreement Does Not Override a Court Order

Even if both parties agree:
• “It’s okay now”
• “We reconciled”
• “We don’t want to follow the order anymore”

that does not make the order go away.

Texas law is clear that a protected person generally cannot give permission for someone to violate a protective order.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.026)

Violating a Protective Order Can Have Serious Consequences

Violating a protective order may lead to:
• Arrest
• Criminal charges
• Contempt of court
• Fines or jail in some circumstances

See, e.g.,
Harvey v. State, 78 S.W.3d 368 (Tex. Crim. App. 2002);
Khan v. Valliani, 439 S.W.3d 528 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2014).

(Tex. Penal Code § 25.07; Tex. Gov’t Code § 21.002)

What If Both Parties Want the Order Changed?

The proper way is to seek court action, not ignore the order.

Depending on the circumstances, parties may seek:
• Modification
• Review
• Expiration of the order when lawful
• Other court-approved relief

The judge—not the parties alone—controls the order.

Agreed Protective Orders Are Different

Parties may sometimes agree to entry of a protective order, subject to court approval.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.005)

But even an agreed protective order, once signed by the court, is still a court order and must be obeyed.

Common Mistake People Make

A frequent mistake is thinking:
“If the protected person invites contact, it must be okay.”

Not necessarily.

That misunderstanding can lead to criminal exposure.

Final Thought

Parties cannot privately agree to disregard a protective order. Until a court changes or ends the order, it remains enforceable, and violating it can have serious consequences.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Can a party go to jail for violating a Protective Order?

Yes. Violating a protective order can lead to arrest, criminal prosecution, contempt of court, fines, and jail — and in some situations, felony charges may be possible.

Yes — Violating a Protective Order Can Lead to Jail

Protective orders are court orders, and violating them can carry serious consequences.

Depending on the conduct involved, a violation may result in:
• Arrest
• Criminal prosecution
• Contempt proceedings
• Jail time
• Fines
• In some cases, felony exposure

(Tex. Penal Code § 25.07; Tex. Fam. Code § 85.026)

Criminal Charges May Be Possible

Under Texas law, knowingly violating certain protective order provisions may itself be a criminal offense.

Examples can include violating provisions involving:
• Prohibited contact
• Going to forbidden locations
• Threatening or harassing communication
• Conduct prohibited by the order

(Tex. Penal Code § 25.07)

See generally Harvey v. State, 78 S.W.3d 368 (Tex. Crim. App. 2002).

Contempt of Court Is Separate

A violation may also expose a person to contempt of court, separate from criminal prosecution.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.026; Tex. Gov’t Code § 21.002)

In some situations, both criminal consequences and contempt consequences may be possible.

The Protected Person Cannot “Give Permission” To Violate the Order

Even if the protected person says contact is okay, that may not excuse violating the order.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 85.026)

Private consent does not usually override a court order.

Emergency Protective Orders Can Also Carry Serious Consequences

Violating a magistrate’s emergency protective order may also lead to prosecution.

(Tex. Code Crim. Proc. art. 17.292)

Final Thought

Violating a protective order can lead to very serious consequences, including arrest and jail. Protective orders are enforceable court orders that must be obeyed unless changed by a judge.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Can family violence allow grandparents to get custody in Texas?

Yes. In some situations, family violence can allow grandparents to seek custody. However, grandparents must meet a high legal burden and show that the child’s physical health or emotional well-being would be significantly impaired if left in the parent’s care.

Parents Are Strongly Favored

Texas law begins with a strong presumption that a child’s best interest is served by placing custody with a parent.

Grandparents Must Meet a High Standard

Grandparents must show that the child’s current circumstances would significantly impair the child’s physical health or emotional development.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 102.004)

Family Violence as a Critical Factor

Evidence of family violence may help meet this burden.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)

Courts may consider domestic violence, abuse, or ongoing dangerous behavior.

Rebutting the Parental Presumption

Credible evidence of family violence may rebut the presumption that a parent should be appointed managing conservator.

See, e.g., In the Interest of K.S., 492 S.W.3d 419 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2016).

Possible Award of Custody to Grandparents

If the evidence shows danger to the child, a court may appoint a grandparent as managing conservator.

See, e.g., Baker v. Baker, 469 S.W.3d 269 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2015);
In re McElhaney, 2005 Tex. App. LEXIS 236 (Tex. App.—Amarillo 2005).

Court’s Primary Focus

The court’s primary concern is always the best interest of the child, with safety being a key consideration.

Important Limitation

Family violence alone is not always enough. The court evaluates the full circumstances, and the burden remains on the grandparents.

Final Thought

Family violence can play a major role in allowing grandparents to seek custody, but the legal standard remains high and fact-specific.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Can family violence allow CPS to take custody of a child in Texas?

Yes. If there is credible evidence that a child is in immediate danger due to family violence, abuse, or neglect, CPS may take possession of the child — sometimes even without a court order — to protect the child’s safety.

CPS Can Act Quickly in Emergencies

In urgent situations, CPS may remove a child without first obtaining a court order if there is immediate danger.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 262.104)

Evidence of Immediate Danger Required

CPS must have personal knowledge or reliable information that would lead a reasonable person to believe the child is in danger.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 262.104)

Court Review Follows Quickly

After removal, CPS must go to court promptly and provide a sworn affidavit showing immediate danger, harm to the child, and efforts to avoid removal.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 262.101)

Family Violence as a Major Factor

Courts must consider family violence when determining custody and safety issues.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)

Temporary vs. Long-Term Custody

CPS may initially obtain temporary custody and may later seek continued placement or even termination of parental rights depending on the circumstances.

Pattern of Conduct Matters

Courts often consider repeated domestic violence, substance abuse, or failure to improve conditions.

See, e.g., In the Interest of M.K., 2023 Tex. App. LEXIS 4593 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2023);
In the Interest of J.S., 2015 Tex. App. LEXIS 10207 (Tex. App.—Beaumont 2015).

Important Limitation

Removal does not automatically mean permanent loss of custody. Parents may have an opportunity to comply with court-ordered services and regain custody.

Final Thought

Family violence can allow CPS to take custody of a child when there is evidence of immediate danger. These situations move quickly, and courts prioritize the child’s safety above all else.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Can parents get their child back after removal by CPS for family violence in Texas?

Yes — in many cases, parents can get their child back after CPS removal. However, they must follow a court-ordered service plan, address the issues that led to removal, and show the court they can provide a safe and stable home.

Service Plan Requirement

After removal, CPS must create a service plan explaining what parents must do to regain custody.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 263.202)

This plan often includes parenting classes, counseling, domestic violence programs, and maintaining a safe home.

Completion of the Service Plan

Parents are expected to complete every requirement in the service plan. Failure to complete even part of the plan can negatively affect the case.

See, e.g., In the Interest of J.M.T., 519 S.W.3d 258 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2017).

CPS Must Make Reasonable Efforts

CPS is generally required to make reasonable efforts to help reunify the family.

(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 263.101, 161.001)

Court Reviews Progress

The court holds regular hearings to evaluate whether parents are complying with the service plan and whether conditions have improved.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 263.307)

Focus on Child Safety

The court’s primary concern is whether it is safe for the child to return home.

See, e.g., In the Interest of J.F.C., 96 S.W.3d 256 (Tex. 2002).

Pattern of Change

Courts look for lasting improvement, not just temporary compliance.

See, e.g., In the Interest of L.E.R., 650 S.W.3d 771 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2022).

Risk of Termination

If parents fail to complete services or improve conditions, CPS may seek termination of parental rights.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 161.001)

Reinstatement (Limited Cases)

In rare situations, parental rights may be reinstated after termination if strict requirements are met.

(Tex. Fam. Code § 161.302)

Final Thought

Parents can often regain custody after CPS removal, but success depends on completing the service plan, demonstrating real change, and proving the child can safely return home.

Disclaimer

This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.

Take the First Step Today

With more than 32 years of legal experience and a previous career as a forensic chemist, founding attorney Dan Kirby knows how to uncover important facts when allegations of domestic violence are made. When spousal abuse is occurring, he and the rest of our staff can help.

To get in touch and schedule an initial consultation with our Houston domestic violence lawyer, call 713-681-1300 or email the firm.