Divorce in Houston
Houston Divorce Attorney
If you and your loved ones are working through divorce issues, it is important to partner with a legal team that can help you understand your situation, rights and goals while guiding you through the process in the best possible way.
At the Law Office of Dan Kirby, we are prepared to give you the hands-on personalized representation you need throughout the divorce process.
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Dan Kirby’s more than 30 years of experience readies him to help guide you through whatever issues you are facing, including:
- Fighting for a fair amount of child support and spousal maintenance payments
- Protecting your parental rights when it comes to custody and visitation
- Creating a plan to help you keep your most valued assets in the property division process
- Putting a temporary order in place while your divorce plays out
Our attorney will take the time to understand the needs of you and your loved ones. From there we will determine the best possible course of action. Many times, couples wish to work together on forging a settlement through an uncontested divorce. If we are able to resolve your issues amicably through settlement, we will do everything we can to preserve your financial and emotional health as we work through the process.
That said, we are more than prepared to go to court to protect your interests, should it be necessary. The most important thing is finding a settlement that gives you the best chance of being able to move on with your life in a positive way.
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We also support the mediation process as a form of alternative dispute resolution. For many couples, sitting down with a mediator and lawyers committed to finding common ground can cool tempers and help keep the divorce moving toward a final agreement that protects everyone’s interests.
How do a couple become legally married in Texas?
In Texas, a couple can become legally married in one of two ways: through a formal (ceremonial) marriage or through an informal (common-law) marriage. Each method has specific legal requirements that must be met.
1. Formal (Ceremonial) Marriage
To be legally married through a ceremony in Texas, a couple must:
- Obtain a marriage license from a county clerk (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.001)
- Have the ceremony performed within 90 days (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.201)
- Use an authorized officiant, such as a judge or licensed minister (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.202)
After the ceremony, the marriage is recorded by the county clerk.
In practice, this is the most common and straightforward way to establish a valid marriage
in Texas.
2. Informal (Common-Law) Marriage
Texas also recognizes informal marriage if three elements are met:
- The couple agrees to be married
- They live together in Texas as spouses
- They represent to others that they are married
(Tex. Fam. Code § 2.401)
All three must exist at the same time.
Texas courts have consistently held that the person claiming a common-law marriage must prove these elements. See, e.g., Ballesteros v. Jones, 985 S.W.2d 485 (Tex. App. 1998), and
Nguyen v. Nguyen, 355 S.W.3d 82 (Tex. App. 2011).
In practice, common-law marriage cases often turn on whether the couple truly held themselves out as married—not just lived together.
Declaration of Informal Marriage
A couple can also formally register a common-law marriage by filing a Declaration of Informal Marriage with the county clerk (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.402).
Important Limitations
- A person under 18 generally cannot marry without a court order (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.003)
- A person already married cannot enter into another marriage
- If no legal action is taken within two years after separation, Texas law presumes no informal marriage existed (Tex. Fam. Code § 2.401)
Final Thought
While the legal requirements may seem straightforward, disputes—especially involving common-law marriage—often depend on how the facts are presented and proven in court.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
Can I get an annulment of my marriage in Texas?
Maybe. In Texas, a marriage can only be annulled if it meets specific legal grounds, such as fraud, intoxication, mental incapacity, or certain procedural defects. If none of those apply, the proper remedy is usually divorce—not annulment.
Common Grounds for Annulment in Texas
1. Fraud, Duress, or Force
A marriage may be annulled if one spouse was induced into the marriage through fraud, duress, or force (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.107).
In practice, this usually requires proof of a material misrepresentation that actually caused the marriage.
Texas courts recognize that not every misstatement is enough—there must be a serious, intentional deception. See, e.g., Montenegro v. Avila, 365 S.W.3d 822 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2012).
2. Mental Incapacity
An annulment may be granted if a party lacked the mental capacity to consent to the marriage at the time it occurred (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.108).
In practice, the case can be lost if the parties continued living together after the incapacity was discovered or should have been discovered. See In re Marriage of Thrash, 605 S.W.3d 224 (Tex. App.—Amarillo 2020).
3. Intoxication at the Time of Marriage
If a person was under the influence of alcohol or narcotics and unable to consent, the marriage may be annulled (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.105).
However, if the couple continues to live together after the intoxication ends, annulment is no longer available.
4. Impotency
A marriage may be annulled if one party was permanently impotent at the time of the marriage, the other party did not know, and the couple did not continue living together after discovering the condition (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.106).
5. Underage Marriage
A marriage involving a person under 18 may be annulled in certain circumstances, particularly if proper consent or court approval was not obtained (Tex. Fam. Code §§ 6.102–6.104).
These cases are time-sensitive and often must be brought quickly. See Creel v. Martinez, 176 S.W.3d 516 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2005).
6. Marriage Within 72 Hours of License
Texas law generally requires a 72-hour waiting period after obtaining a marriage license. A marriage performed too soon may be annulled if action is taken within 30 days (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.110).
Important Considerations
– Continuing to live together after discovering a problem can prevent annulment
– The person seeking annulment must prove the legal requirements
– Courts have discretion and will consider the specific facts of the case
Final Thought
Annulments are much more limited than most people expect. In many situations, even where something went wrong, Texas law still requires a divorce rather than an annulment.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
What kind of evidence is needed to prove grounds for an annulment?
To get an annulment in Texas, you must prove specific legal grounds—such as fraud, duress, or force—with credible evidence. This usually includes testimony, documents, and circumstances showing that the marriage was not entered into voluntarily or honestly.
1. Fraud
To prove fraud, you must show that your spouse made a material misrepresentation that:
– Was false
– Was known to be false
– Was intended to be relied upon
– Actually caused you to enter the marriage
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.107)
Common evidence includes:
– Testimony about what was said before the marriage
– Text messages, emails, or written communications
– Witnesses who heard or observed the representations
Texas courts require proof of a serious and material deception—not just regret or misunderstanding. See, e.g., Desta v. Anyaoha, 371 S.W.3d 596 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2012).
Important: You must also show that you did not continue living with your spouse after discovering the fraud.
2. Duress
Duress occurs when someone is pressured into marriage through threats or improper conduct.
To prove duress, the evidence must show:
– A threat or wrongful act
– That the threat was imminent
– That it was intended to interfere with your free will
– That it actually did interfere with your decision to marry
Common evidence includes:
– Testimony about threats or coercion
– Messages or recordings showing pressure
– Witnesses who observed the conduct
Texas courts emphasize that the pressure must come from the other party—not just internal feelings. See, e.g., Weinberg v. Baharav, 553 S.W.3d 131 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2018).
3. Force
Force involves being compelled into marriage through physical or psychological coercion.
Common evidence includes:
– Testimony about threats or physical restraint
– Police reports or medical records (if applicable)
– Witness testimony
As with fraud and duress, the court will consider whether the marriage was truly voluntary.
Key Legal Principle
In all annulment cases:
– The person seeking annulment has the burden of proof
– The judge decides credibility of witnesses
– The outcome often depends heavily on the specific facts
Texas courts consistently hold that the trial court is the sole judge of the weight and credibility of the evidence. See, e.g., McCord v. Goode, 308 S.W.3d 409 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2010).
Final Thought
Annulment cases are often decided based on credibility and proof—not just legal arguments. Even if a valid ground exists, the case can be lost without strong evidence supporting it.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
How will a court evaluate the credibility of evidence in an annulment case?
In an annulment case, the judge decides which evidence and testimony to believe. The court looks at the credibility of the witnesses, the consistency of the evidence, and whether the facts actually support the legal grounds for annulment.
The Judge Decides Who to Believe
In Texas, the trial judge is the fact finder, which means:
– The judge determines the credibility of witnesses
– The judge decides how much weight to give each piece of evidence
– The judge resolves conflicts between competing testimony
Texas courts consistently hold that the trial court is the sole judge of credibility and may believe one witness over another. See, e.g., Montenegro v. Avila, 365 S.W.3d 822 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2012); Viera v. Viera, 331 S.W.3d 195 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2011).
In practice: your case often depends on how believable your testimony is compared to the other party.
What the Court Looks For
When evaluating credibility, courts commonly consider:
– Whether the testimony is consistent
– Whether it is supported by documents or other evidence
– Whether the witness’s version of events makes sense
– Whether there is corroborating testimony
Strong cases usually have both testimony and supporting evidence.
Fraud, Duress, and Force Cases
In annulment cases based on fraud, duress, or force (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.107), the court will look closely at:
– What was said or done before the marriage
– Whether the statements were actually false or coercive
– Whether the petitioner relied on those statements
– Whether the parties continued living together after discovering the issue
Texas courts require proof of a material misrepresentation or coercion, not just regret or misunderstanding. See, e.g., Desta v. Anyaoha, 371 S.W.3d 596 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2012).
Why Evidence Matters More Than Arguments
Even if a valid legal ground exists, the case can fail if the evidence is weak.
The court is not required to believe a party simply because they make an allegation.
For example, courts may accept one party’s testimony and reject the other’s if the judge finds it more credible. See, e.g., Manjlai v. Manjlai, 447 S.W.3d 376 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2014).
Appeals Are Limited
If a case is appealed, appellate courts usually defer to the trial judge on credibility issues.
They will uphold the ruling if there is any reasonable evidence supporting it. See, e.g., Villarreal v. Villarreal, 2010 Tex. App. LEXIS 5734 (Tex. App.—Beaumont 2010).
In practice, it is very difficult to overturn a credibility decision on appeal.
Final Thought
In annulment cases, credibility can determine the outcome. The judge is deciding which version of events is believable. Strong, consistent evidence is often the difference between winning and losing.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
What are the time limits for getting an annulment?
It depends on the reason for the annulment. Some grounds have strict deadlines—ranging from 30 days to one year—while others do not have a specific time limit but can be lost if you wait too long or continue living together after discovering the issue.
Annulment Grounds with Strict Deadlines
Underage Marriage
If a marriage involved a minor without proper consent:
– A next friend must file within 90 days of the marriage
– A parent or guardian must file before the minor turns 18
(Tex. Fam. Code §§ 6.102–6.103)
Marriage Within 72 Hours of License
If the marriage occurred too soon after obtaining the license:
– The case must be filed within 30 days of the marriage
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.110)
Concealed Divorce
If one spouse was recently divorced (within 30 days before the marriage) and failed to disclose it:
– The case must be filed within 1 year of the marriage
– The petitioner must not have continued living with the other spouse after learning the truth
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.109)
Annulment Grounds Without a Fixed Deadline
Some grounds do not have a specific statute of limitations, including:
– Fraud, duress, or force (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.107)
– Mental incapacity (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.108)
– Intoxication (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.105)
– Impotency (Tex. Fam. Code § 6.106)
However, these claims can still be lost if the parties continue living together after discovering the issue.
Additional Limitation
In general, annulment actions must be brought while both parties are alive, with limited exceptions. Texas courts recognize that annulment claims are tied closely to the facts of the relationship. See, e.g., Allebach v. Gollub, 668 S.W.3d 458 (Tex. App.—El Paso 2023).
Final Thought
Time limits in annulment cases can be strict and unforgiving. Even where no specific deadline applies, waiting too long—or continuing the relationship—can prevent an annulment.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
What are the requirements to get a divorce in Texas?
To get a divorce in Texas, at least one spouse must meet residency requirements, the case must be filed in the correct county, and the court must wait at least 60 days before granting the divorce (with limited exceptions).
1. Residency Requirements
To file for divorce in Texas:
– One spouse must have lived in Texas for at least 6 months
– One spouse must have lived in the county of filing for at least 90 days
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.301)
These residency requirements are mandatory and cannot be waived. See, e.g., Reynolds v. Reynolds, 86 S.W.3d 272 (Tex. App.—Austin 2002); Kopecinski v. Kopecinski, 627 S.W.2d 472 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 1981).
In practice: If you do not meet these requirements, the court cannot grant a divorce yet.
2. 60-Day Waiting Period
Texas law generally requires a 60-day waiting period after filing before a divorce can be finalized.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.702)
In practice: Even uncontested divorces usually take at least 60 days.
3. Filing in the Proper County
The divorce must be filed in the county where one spouse has lived for at least 90 days.
Filing in the wrong county can delay or complicate the case.
4. Jurisdiction Over the Other Spouse
If one spouse lives outside Texas, the court may still proceed if:
– Texas was the last marital residence and the case is filed within two years, or
– There is another legal basis for jurisdiction
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.305)
Texas courts recognize that jurisdiction must comply with constitutional due process requirements. See, e.g., In re Marriage of Lai, 333 S.W.3d 645 (Tex. App.—Austin 2009).
5. Special Rules for Military Personnel
A person stationed in Texas for at least:
– 6 months in the state, and
– 90 days in a county
is considered a Texas resident for divorce purposes.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.304)
Courts have applied these provisions to ensure military personnel are not disadvantaged in establishing residency. See, e.g., In re Green, 385 S.W.3d 665 (Tex. App.—San Antonio 2012).
Important Considerations
– Residency requirements cannot be waived
– Filing too early can result in dismissal
– Even simple cases must meet all statutory requirements
Final Thought
While the requirements to file for divorce in Texas are straightforward, mistakes in residency or filing location can delay the case. Making sure these basic requirements are met at the start can save significant time.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
Are there exceptions to the 60-day waiting period for divorce in Texas?
Yes. Texas law allows a divorce to be finalized in less than 60 days if there has been family violence and certain legal conditions are met.
General Rule: 60-Day Waiting Period
In most cases, a Texas court cannot grant a divorce until at least 60 days after the petition is filed.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.702)
In practice: Even uncontested divorces must usually wait at least 60 days before being finalized.
Exceptions to the 60-Day Rule
1. Criminal Case for Family Violence
The waiting period does not apply if the other spouse has:
– Been finally convicted, or
– Received deferred adjudication
for family violence against the petitioner or a household member.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.702; Tex. Fam. Code § 71.004)
2. Active Protective Order
The waiting period may also be waived if:
– There is an active protective order, or
– A magistrate’s order for emergency protection based on family violence committed during the marriage.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.702; Tex. Fam. Code § 71.004; Tex. Code Crim. Proc. art. 17.292)
What Courts Look For
To apply an exception, the court typically requires:
– Documentation of the conviction or deferred adjudication, or
– A valid protective order based on family violence
Courts require clear proof before allowing a divorce to proceed without the 60-day waiting period.
How Courts Apply These Exceptions
Texas courts strictly follow the statutory requirements and will only waive the waiting period when the evidence clearly supports it. See, e.g., In re Rivas, 2015 Tex. Dist. LEXIS 13052 (387th Dist. Ct., Fort Bend County, Tex. Nov. 25, 2015); In re Idehen, 2016 Tex. Dist. LEXIS 12424 (505th Dist. Ct., Fort Bend County, Tex. May 12, 2016).
Important Limitations
– The exception applies only in cases involving family violence
– The burden is on the petitioner to prove the exception
– A divorce granted too early without a valid exception may be challenged on appeal
Final Thought
While Texas law generally requires a 60-day waiting period, courts will move more quickly in cases involving family violence. However, these exceptions are applied carefully and require proper documentation.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
Can family violence allow a divorce to be finalized before the 60-day waiting period?
Yes. Texas law allows a divorce to be finalized in less than 60 days if there is evidence of family violence, such as a criminal case or an active protective order.
When Family Violence Creates an Exception
The 60-day waiting period does not apply if:
– The other spouse has been convicted of family violence, or
– The other spouse has received deferred adjudication for family violence, or
– There is an active protective order or emergency protection order
(Tex. Fam. Code § 6.702; Tex. Fam. Code § 71.004; Tex. Code Crim. Proc. art. 17.292)
In practice: Courts require clear proof before allowing a divorce to proceed early.
What Counts as Family Violence
Texas law defines family violence as:
– Physical harm or bodily injury
– Threats that place someone in fear of imminent harm
– Abuse of a child in the household
– Dating violence
(Tex. Fam. Code § 71.004)
Even a single act can qualify if it meets the legal definition. See, e.g., Culver v. Culver, 360 S.W.3d 526 (Tex. App.—Texarkana 2011).
What Evidence Courts Typically Require
To apply the exception, courts usually look for:
– A protective order based on family violence
– A criminal conviction or deferred adjudication
– Police reports or medical records
– Credible testimony supported by facts
The stronger and more documented the evidence, the more likely the court will waive the waiting period.
Important Limitations
– Not all conflict qualifies as family violence
– The burden is on the petitioner to prove the exception
– Courts will not waive the waiting period without sufficient proof
Final Thought
Family violence can allow a divorce to move faster in Texas, but the exception is applied carefully. Courts require credible evidence that meets the legal definition before waiving the 60-day waiting period.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
How do Texas courts evaluate evidence of family violence in family cases?
Texas courts decide whether family violence occurred by evaluating the credibility of the evidence, including testimony, documents, and the circumstances of the case. The judge determines which evidence is believable and how much weight to give it.
The Judge Decides Credibility
In Texas, the trial judge is the fact finder, which means:
– The judge decides which witnesses are credible
– The judge weighs conflicting testimony
– The judge determines what evidence to believe
Texas courts consistently defer to the trial court on credibility issues. See, e.g., J.A.T. v. C.S.T., 641 S.W.3d 596 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2022); In re Collier, 419 S.W.3d 390 (Tex. App.—Amarillo 2013).
In practice: The outcome often depends on which version of events the judge finds more believable.
What Counts as Family Violence
Texas law defines family violence as:
– Physical harm or bodily injury
– Threats that create fear of imminent harm
– Abuse of a child
– Dating violence
(Tex. Fam. Code § 71.004)
Types of Evidence Courts Consider
Courts evaluate both direct and circumstantial evidence, including:
– Testimony from the parties
– Police reports
– Medical records
– Photographs or physical evidence
– Witness testimony
A case is stronger when testimony is supported by independent evidence, but corroboration is not always required.
Single Incident vs. Pattern of Violence
A single act of family violence may be enough to support a finding.
However, courts often look at whether there is a pattern or history of abuse.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)
See, e.g., C.L.W. v. R.V.W., 2023 Tex. App. LEXIS 6020 (Tex. App.—Houston [1st Dist.] 2023).
Protective Orders as Evidence
A protective order can serve as strong evidence of family violence, especially if it was issued based on findings of abuse.
However, the court will still evaluate all the evidence in the case.
Why Credibility Matters So Much
Even in serious cases:
– The court is not required to believe every allegation
– The judge may accept one party’s testimony and reject the other’s
– The outcome often depends on consistency and supporting evidence
Credibility is often the deciding factor in family violence cases.
Final Thought
Texas courts evaluate family violence claims based on credibility, evidence, and the overall circumstances of the case. Strong, consistent, and well-supported evidence is critical to proving or defending against these claims.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
What protective measures can our courts take to protect children in family violence cases?
Texas courts can impose a wide range of protective measures in custody and visitation orders to keep children safe. These may include supervised visitation, restricted access, and specific safety conditions.
Court’s Priority: Child Safety
In cases involving family violence, Texas courts must prioritize the physical and emotional safety of the child.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)
In practice: Safety concerns often override standard visitation arrangements.
Common Protective Measures Courts Use
1. Supervised Visitation
The court may require that visits be supervised by:
– A neutral third party, or
– A professional supervision service
This ensures the child is not left alone with a parent who poses a risk.
See, e.g., In re L.C.L., 396 S.W.3d 712 (Tex. App.—Dallas 2013).
2. Safe Exchange Locations
Courts may order that custody exchanges occur in:
– Police stations
– Neutral public locations
– Supervised exchange facilities
This reduces the risk of conflict or harm during exchanges.
3. Restrictions on Substance Use
A parent may be ordered to:
– Avoid alcohol or drugs before and during visitation
This helps ensure the parent is able to safely care for the child.
4. Required Intervention Programs
Courts may require a parent to complete:
– A battering intervention and prevention program, or
– Counseling or treatment programs
These conditions are often required before expanding visitation rights.
5. Limited or Denied Visitation
If there is credible evidence of a history or pattern of family violence, the court may:
– Deny visitation entirely, or
– Allow only limited or highly restricted access
(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)
The court must determine that any access will not endanger the child.
See, e.g., In the Interest of K.S., 492 S.W.3d 419 (Tex. App.—Houston [14th Dist.] 2016).
Presumption Against Unsupervised Access
Texas law creates a presumption that unsupervised visitation is not in the child’s best interest when there is credible evidence of family violence.
(Tex. Fam. Code § 153.004)
This means the burden shifts to the parent to prove that access is safe.
Final Thought
Texas courts have broad authority to impose protective measures in family violence cases. These safeguards are designed to protect children and may significantly limit or control a parent’s access depending on the circumstances.
Disclaimer
This information is provided for general educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice.
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